Friday, August 24, 2012

24 August 2012
Do Americans Need a Common Identity? 
America is essentially a "melting pot" or "fruit salad" of many different cultures, peoples and backgrounds. While we all strive to be one, it's difficult to classify ourselves as a single body of traditions, races or even origins. I believe that Americans don't need a common identity because it is in our nature to be our own person, to stick to our values and to keep our heritage strong. America doesn't have something to look to in order to become one. We are always looking back on the differences, trying to fit the pieces together but never succeeding. This is how the country works - always changing and adapting to new ideas and heritages to become better and more diverse than before. With so many differences mixed together, it's nearly impossible to create a common ground.
We can't always expect everyone to conform to the ideal American way of life. Truth is, there really isn't a set way of living here. If we expect everyone to "be American" in order to achieve a common identity, I think we would end up losing so much diversity. Instead, we choose to live in harmony with those who differ from us. We "agree to respect the social manyness rather than by pledging allegiance to the 'one indivisible' republic," as stated by Michael Walzer in Taking Sides: Clashing Views in Race and Ethnicity: 8th Edition. Some people, like my parents' friends from India and Pakistan, still dress and have parties like they would if they were in their home countries. They don't want their children to lose sight of where they came from. Each person that comes to America wants to be their own person and to keep their daily values. People shouldn't have to change to be something that they're not. America is a place where you can go and still be who you were in your country of origin without feeling threatened. This helps the point of the "hyphen" that Walzer refers to...it's essentially an addition sign. You can be French-American, German-American, Australian-American, Russian-American, etc. but still be French, German, Australian or Russian. "Neither the first nor the second name is dominant; here the hyphen works more like a sign of equality." People have a choice of what they want to be when they come to America. Floating to either side of this hyphen is a choice and it is up to the people on whether or not they want to be classified as such. Walzer argues that "American citizenship is indeed anonymous, for it doesn't require a full commitment to American...nationality." This then makes tacking down the so-called "identity" of America hard because you would have to classify people who're from all different times and places and then be able to pin them to one general statement.
I think that cultures can have different identities while countries shouldn't. To me, an identity is something that you inherit when you're born. It is what you are, essentially, and it cannot be taken away from you. If you leave where you come from, you still carry it with you, for you are still the same person coming from the same place. Walzer writes "...America is not a jealous nation...it is different from most others." This is true. In America, you find so many people that carry on their lives in the same fashion they would if they were in their home country. There is no rule here to be something you're not, to fall under a certain identity. Americans ourselves don't even have a true common identity. We have, rather, a "more complicated existence."

Monday, August 20, 2012

Making Up Dates...

Change can be so many different things and handled in so many different ways. At first, it can seem to be a bad thing, but over time, it gets better. Nothing is ever easy at first. Being able to figure out where you are, how to operate in a new environment and make new friends isn't always easy. Everyone adjusts to things differently. Moving from a small graduating class of 32 to a freshman class of 6,000+ is quite a bit of a change and is so overwhelming - especially when you're all on your own. You can talk forever about something - being there, imagining what it will be like, "preparing" for what will come, etc. - but nothing really tells you what to expect or how to handle it. You start to find out that you don't really know something until you've experienced it. It's up to you on how to deal with it and move forward. I think this is one of the most fascinating things in life...being able to start over new. What would you do differently, what would you keep the same? Thinking about it can produce lots of results, but when you're in the moment, you just find what works for you and move on.
Life really does speed by. It might seem slow in the moment, but before you know it, it's already in the past and gone. Living in the moment is so important and I think we all take it for granted. However the truth remains that there are so many things to experience, and there's only so much time to experience them all. You'll never honestly get to smell every scent in the world, see every sight, experience every emotion, etc. Taking what you have and making it something to remember is better than spreading them all so thin that they seem irrelevant. Why would anyone ever go out and do anything if that were the case? If there's one thing I've learned from life and the changes that are always constant, it would be to just keep moving forward and take everything in as it comes your way.

Thursday, August 9, 2012

8 August 2012
In the eye of the storm it's always so calm,
The thunder's so loud it sounds just like a bomb.
The raindrops fall, cold on my skin,
It's sure nice to know that only you can let it in.
As if time freezes for a moment, you can see so far,
Becoming easier to forget, just exactly where you are.
The sky, once so blue, has turned suddenly gray,
Wind whipping away the tiny light of the day.
All over so fast, the clouds finally clear,
A rainbow turns up, shimmering bright - seemingly near.
Though wish you may and wish you might,
You can never win every fight.
But hope for better seems to have the best luck,
For the lightning was brightest wherever it struck.

Wednesday, August 8, 2012

6 and 7 August 2012
The world is such a big place, yet it can seem so small. I've heard it said, and now know it to be true, that every person is connected to every other person by 7 degrees...or you know someone who knows someone, etc. Only 7 people between you and everyone else in the world. It's weird to think about and seems near impossible, but over the past few years, I've found this statement to be complete fact. The world makes a whole revolution in 24 hours. If you were to stay stationary - hovering above land for that amount of time - you'd see the whole earth spin underneath your feet. Airplanes fly those distances everyday. A friend once told me "if I can be standing next to you in under 24 hours, no distance is too far" and it's so true. While mail takes up to 2 weeks to get to the other side of the planet, it's much simpler and definitely mind-boggling to think about air travel and how such vast distances can be overcome in a matter of hours. There really isn't ever a place to hide from things you want to get away from because sooner or later, the connections will snap back to you and you'll find someone that knows someone you know or run into something you've heard about from a friend, etc. We don't see these amazing little details until they happen to us firsthand. The world is such a big place, and yet so small, and quite amazing all at the same time.

Monday, August 6, 2012

5 August 2012
Chaos can be controlled, even when it seems that it's bursting at the seams. Just close the door and it's gone. I think we all dislike chaos because it's such disorder that it seems incurable. Things will always get worse before they get better though, so never fear...the situation's always looking up. Messes scare a lot of people too - the idea of having to find a place for everything and to make it look neat, it's horrifying! But it must be done. The faster you buckle-down and get it done, the better off everything will be. That may be the most dramatic approach, but it's effective.

Saturday, August 4, 2012

4 August 2012
Storm clouds roll over Pelican Lake - Fair Hills Resort, Minnesota.
Life is full of surprises. It comes at you with no warning. Often times, we become so busy and wrapped up in our own life that we can forget our priorities. Most people like to have a plan to their daily routine...it's why those things become the same over time - unchanging. While I think this is a good thing, I also like to have a little bit of change. Without change, there is no growth for improvement and a fresh start. After a good rain, the smell of the clean air just makes me smile...new life and cleanliness is always something to look forward to after a good storm. Just like in life, with a new start comes a multitude of new opportunities to choose from and enjoy.